Pedophile

So I met this guy last summer.

On e-Harmony of all places.  We emailed back and forth for kind of a long time and he was pretty cool.  Naturally, he said all the right things, was very complimentary - you know the drill...

Then randomly, I got an email from e-harmony that said that I should discontinue any kind of communication with this guy, because they'd done a background check on him and he didn't pass.  Apparently they'd closed his profile.  Since we'd already been emailing, I asked him about it.  Why not - right?  His response?  "When I trust you more, I'll tell you all about it.  But for now, just know that I'm not a danger to you or anyone else."

Well, Okay!

So we emailed a little bit more.  And one day when I was up in Ogden, we went out.  He took me to a fish hatchery to go "fishing".  There was a bench and he started to get all snugly with me, but I wasn't soo much feelin' it - ya know?  So we left.  And ate at this great little Indian restaurant and then headed back to his place for a bit.  He stuck in a movie that I'd never seen and apparently still haven't seen, cuz I have no idea what it was.

I couldn't take the pressure anymore.  I had to know.

So I looked at him and asked.  And he told me.  I got up and left.

Apparently I have no interest in sitting there and listening to him tell me all about how he had some terribly inappropriate relationship with a younger girl, when he was 18.  At first, I just figured she was 16,  and everything was consensual until her father found out about it.  You know how all that goes - right?  Nope.  she was 8.  So I peace'd-out.

blegh...

I really need to start listening to my first instincts about people...